tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2819218519319327073.post5387606441650789348..comments2023-03-03T06:24:03.103-10:00Comments on Radical Love: How to Completely Forgive Your Parents (and everyone else)Hiyaguhahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15657758281934447973noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2819218519319327073.post-1971543220002582102012-01-19T17:02:26.573-10:002012-01-19T17:02:26.573-10:00is the link down? the contents were still good ho...is the link down? the contents were still good however. Thanks for discussing something that is in the background of a lot of us.rogerhttp://freeldssheetmusic.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2819218519319327073.post-62274346680319998892011-05-21T00:53:43.098-10:002011-05-21T00:53:43.098-10:00Thanks Hiyaguha -
Have realised too that I learned...Thanks Hiyaguha -<br />Have realised too that I learned to treat myself the way that they treated me, which is probably why the hurt just continues. I need to look at how I abuse myself now and deal with that rather than focus on how others treated me. Ho hum - live and learn!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2819218519319327073.post-36854622811968901192011-05-19T06:47:36.608-10:002011-05-19T06:47:36.608-10:00Yes,intention alone rarely works. I find a few thi...Yes,intention alone rarely works. I find a few things that help. To get beneath the surface to the core of what keeps you stuck, energy-meridian work is great. It clears the energy associated with anger and trauma. I do TAT (Tapas Acupressure Technique) with my clients to help them clear stuck energy, but there are other systems, like EFT and EMDR. I suggest you find a coach or therapist who can offer these things if you really want to be free of that baggage. YOu can also contact me for a phone consult. Once you get to that point, another helpful thing is really "getting" that forgiving doesn't mean allowing. It's easier to forgive knowing they did the best they were capable of, but it wasn't healthy for you and you would never allow it again.Hiyaguhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15657758281934447973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2819218519319327073.post-56850786408039080032011-05-19T06:02:18.590-10:002011-05-19T06:02:18.590-10:00It's the how that has me stymied. I could say ...It's the how that has me stymied. I could say I forgive them, but I really don't. I want to forget it all and move forward now that they're gone, but what's the point of being insincere? The anger and hurt sits in the centre of my chest like a rock and I would love to dissolve it and let it go as I move forward into the life they denied me, but I can intellectualise it all I want - if I can't feel it, then what's the point?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com